I didn’t abandon this! I’m just out of the country with like no wifi like anywhere at all.
Posting will resume when I’m home.



If he doesn’t care about your orgasm, he doesn’t care about you

Hi there, so since I first discovered my sexuality vanilla sex never did anything for me. At first I was uncomfortable with my desires but since getting older I’ve come to accept them and love them. I recently made the decision of getting into a relationship with a guy who likes the vanilla life style. I’m completely submissive outside the bedroom(if he gives me a direct order I’ll follow, but i tend to rebel), but he isn’t dominant in life or the bedroom, and I have no idea what to do…

Sorry for the late reply, babe.

I totally understand what you mean about wanting all this stuff with him.
But I’m not sure if you mean he’s like…not CURRENTLY a freak in the sheets or he never WANTS to be dominant towards you. Obviously if he is willing to change up some stuff you have to approach him about it and have a discussion; maybe he’s only slightly willing and will just give up some smacks and light choking that you could settle for (lets be honest, those are sort of generic-sex things nowadays anyway, right? so it’s not a total stretch for him) or maybe he’s just hesitant but can eventually get comfy enough to be how you fantasize him to be.

If he isn’t willing at all, it’s a bummer but that’s just something you’re going to have to respect and deal with if you want to be in a relationship with him. He may have literally zero interest in it and forcing your kinks onto someone is a gross thing to do, so if that is the case, you’ll have to decide how important it is to you weighed against your relationship.

Hope I helped even just a bit. You’ll figure it out, I believe in you! <3

I am finally accepting myself for who I am instead of trying to conform, and I’m exploring more of the D/s world, myself being sub.. Anyways your blog is just so cool and it helps a lot in realizing that it’s okay to have the feelings I do and I don’t know.. you’re like super awesome for doing what you do and you’re so sweet and I’m embarrassing myself now haha 🙈

SO sorry I’m so late with the answer, I didn’t mean to be I swear! <3

Thanks so much, I’m so happy for you! All this stuff can be so much fun once you realize what you really are into. You’re definitely not alone and there are tons of cool people to meet and talk with and discuss things so it’s all easier and less scary- just do it safely and you’ll love all of this.
Thanks again for such a sweet message, you’re adorable! :*

Hi there! I’m new to this whole particular tumblr scene, and I was wondering if you had any tips and or tricks on how to feel more comfortable in this community! I have loved your blog for a long time and you’re one of the reasons I actually made this one.

Aw, thank you, that’s so sweet!
I’m not hugely active in the whole Tumblr community per se, but to stay comfortable some general advice I’d give is:
- don’t post anything traceable
- don’t give out information like names and junk, Kik is fine but eh…
- posting nudesies can be awesome and fun, but make sure you’re doing it for yourself and not getting pressured into it
- don’t fall for online “dom” tricks; they’re everywhere and they’re usually all bad news unless they put in the proper time and never pressure you
- be open to speaking to people, not even about sexual stuff

You seem like a cutepie, so I don’t think you’ll have any problems if you just keep yourself safe and participate as much as you want without being influenced by others… Unless you consented to that and want to do that.

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Look man. I don’t give a fuck if i’m knuckle deep in her ass hole and she’s covered in cum and tied to my bed frame, I still hold her equal to me.

shoutout to the girls sucking dick because it makes THEM happy

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